Nothing is ever compartmentalized in our lives. The price of perfection does have a cost; especially on our relationships with others.
Your perfectionism addiction is impacting your relationships if:
🙋 There is (at least) one relationship in your life that isn't working out the way you want it to
🙋 On the outside you smile and on the inside you cry
🙋 You're debilitated by fatigue at times
🙋 The world of overwhelment is a very real and alive experience everyday
🙋 You feel like a container that you need to maintain to avoid blowing up
🙋 Some very important area of your life has NOT been working out despite ALL the work you've done on yourself to be better
🙋 You stop yourself in taking action for fear of it and you not being good enough
🙋 You've fantasized what it would be like to die to release yourself from the confinement and suffocation of things not working out
🙋 You prefer to spend the majority of your time by yourself as to be 'left alone'
🙋 You create a facade that you have it all together so those around you won't figure out that you don't
🙋 Your body aches and hurts and yet nothing you do alleviates the discomfort
🙋 When you see social media posts of others living out their dreams you experience fear, worry, sadness, overwhelment
👆 Or anything along those lines of your own version. Now most of these do not directly say anything about relationships and yet all of this affects how you interact with the people in your lives. Fatigue impacting your ability to be present in a conversation, body pains impacting your desire to engage in physical adventures, and etc.. If it impacts you, it impacts your relationships.
The amazing news about all of this is that in your awareness there is power to break your silence. Perfectionism is a sad and depressing world to live in.
In this episode I share…
✴️ The impact that my perfectionism has had in my relationship with my Mom.
✴️ How screaming at my Mom over food was the breakdown I needed to see just how alive my perfectionism is in my life. ✴️ The actions I took in my awareness.
✴️ What's possible for you and your life in your awareness.
✴️ A powerful intention that is THE access to your Freedom
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